{"id":514,"date":"2010-09-18T08:06:11","date_gmt":"2010-09-18T15:06:11","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/thesimplehouse.com\/?p=514"},"modified":"2019-10-10T06:07:59","modified_gmt":"2019-10-10T14:07:59","slug":"just-take-a-deep-breath-part-1","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/thesimplehouse.com\/?p=514","title":{"rendered":"Just Take a Deep Breath &#8211; Part 1"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/thesimplehouse.com\/?attachment_id=513\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-513\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/thesimplehouse.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/09\/EmX_bus.jpg?resize=250%2C189\" alt=\"\" title=\"EmX_bus\" width=\"250\" height=\"189\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-513\" \/><\/a> You may be wondering why I have a picture of a Eugene, Oregon <a href=\"http:\/\/www.ltd.org\/search\/showresult.html?versionthread=d38519362672c662c61a9300c1dd78be\">EMX<\/a> bus in a post about taking a deep breath? &#8220;Is Bill going to talk about air pollution, greenhouse gases, or our car-dependence?&#8221; Actually, none of the above.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve talked before about how so many things are interconnected. Today I want to talk about how we over-schedule our lives and simply try and squeeze too much stuff into a day. Not the stuff like consumer stuff: shirts, tvs, cars. Stuff like: I need to deposit that check on my way to my whatever appointment and do that before my whatever appointment because I&#8217;m coming from another appointment across town. But in doing so, I don&#8217;t REALLY have enough time (and frankly, it could wait until afterwards anyway), so it makes me five minutes late.<\/p>\n<p>Now most of us probably wouldn&#8217;t typically think five minutes late is a big deal. And, while I personally think it is (it&#8217;s disrespectful, for starters), there&#8217;s a bigger picture here I want to talk about. <strong>And that is our busy-ness in our lives.<\/strong> Which brings me back to the bus.<\/p>\n<p>I was privileged to attend the <a href=\"http:\/\/oregonplanninginstitute.com\/\">Oregon Planning Institute&#8217;s<\/a> 2010 conference this week in Eugene at the <a href=\"http:\/\/uoregon.edu\/\">University of Oregon<\/a>. I didn&#8217;t want to drive my car (parking sucks at the UO, plus it&#8217;s $8 a day if you can find a spot), I&#8217;m still more of a fair weather bicyclist (that&#8217;s changing), so I rode the bus ($3 for an all-day pass, about the same as the gallon of gas I&#8217;d burn going to and from). <\/p>\n<p>About a year ago, I &#8220;discovered&#8221; the bus during the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.commutechallenge.org\/\">Business Commute Challenge<\/a>. I realized it broke down ALL my misconceptions (no one rides the bus except hooligans, it&#8217;s inconvenient, takes along time, etc). Our local bus system (<a href=\"http:\/\/www.ltd.org\">Lane Transit District<\/a>) actually works quite well, a lot of &#8220;normal&#8221; people ride (and both buses yesterday were almost full), and it&#8217;s quite convenient from a time perspective.<\/p>\n<p>And that&#8217;s my point: <strong>perspective<\/strong>. When I ride to work (and I do at times), it takes me about 30 minutes. If I drive, depending on traffic, it takes me 15 to 20 minutes. And here&#8217;s where we all need to take a deep breath. I can say &#8220;the bus doesn&#8217;t work for me because it takes TWICE as long as driving.&#8221; OR, I can say &#8220;the bus only take about an extra 10 to 15 minutes; and I can read a book. Or meet someone.&#8221; <strong>I choose the latter.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>And I choose that largely because of the realization I had riding to the planning conference. First session started at 8 am. The way my schedule and transfer worked, I could arrive at about 7:30 or about 7:50. If I arrived at 7:50, I could get off the bus, walk briskly to my session, sit down and probably be ready to go by 8:00. BUT I chose to arrive at 7:30, walk calmly to my session (observing a dog barking at a squirrel he had treed), get a cup of coffee, and make a new friend with another person who had arrived early, too.<\/p>\n<p>This is also something that is WAY bigger than just riding the bus and reducing my carbon footprint. I think so much of our current culture wars and political wrangling come from us simply not building enough &#8220;margin&#8221; into our lives. I have a LOT of thoughts on that and it&#8217;s those areas of margin I want to talk about in my next post.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You may be wondering why I have a picture of a Eugene, Oregon EMX bus in a post about taking a deep breath? &#8220;Is Bill going to talk about air pollution, greenhouse gases, or our car-dependence?&#8221; Actually, none of the above. I&#8217;ve talked before about how so many things are interconnected. Today I want to &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"http:\/\/thesimplehouse.com\/?p=514\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Just Take a Deep Breath &#8211; Part 1&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[84],"tags":[102,106,105,107,29,104,103],"class_list":["post-514","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-lifestyle","tag-bus","tag-calm","tag-deep-breath","tag-margin","tag-simple","tag-stuff","tag-transit"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/thesimplehouse.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/514","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/thesimplehouse.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/thesimplehouse.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/thesimplehouse.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/thesimplehouse.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=514"}],"version-history":[{"count":30,"href":"http:\/\/thesimplehouse.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/514\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":544,"href":"http:\/\/thesimplehouse.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/514\/revisions\/544"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/thesimplehouse.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=514"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/thesimplehouse.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=514"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/thesimplehouse.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=514"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}